CHRISTMAS, one of the most powerful words in the English dictionary. Not only in the true sense but also used as a word to intimidate and to reward. I remember growing up and how many different meanings came with the word CHRISTMAS. Then there was SANTA, the second most powerful word. To me if felt like I had learned the true meaning of these two words once I stepped off the platform.... after receiving my high school diploma........but in all fact.......it was years before when my peers had informed me that CHRISTMAS was real, SANTA was not. I never had the nerve to tell my parents that....it would have broken their hearts. I remember how I spent the first CHRISTMAS away from my parents. I was stationed in Baumholder, Germany with the 7th Army. I opened a CHRISTMAS card from my parents and found it signed, "we love you Vito...Mom and Dad.........PS. Santa left this $50 bill under the tree last night and asked us to send it to you, there is more when you come home.......but he thought it best not to send it in the mail"
AAHH, how those days bring back the the alternative meaning of CHRISTMAS........ presents. It usually started just about a week after New Years. The magical word CHRISTMAS was beginning to once again become alive, knowing if I was good, Santa would see that and bring me a nice present.............however if I screw something up.........Santa would remember and then it could be a flip of the coin. It was so intimidating so early in the year but then..............out of nowhere about July the word SANTA started to get mentioned in the same sentence. Then I knew Mom and Dad meant what they said.
Now, when it was time for me to past this onto my children.....I used the same method of intimidation and reward............however......it seemed to be for a shorter period of time (in years.) Did that mean kids were getting smarter.............or dumber? Smart in the sense that CHRISTMAS was real.........Santa .........could be real..............then again, there came a time that the things my kids asked for Santa to bring........if they were good.............were so downright obscene (in cost) that they downright knew Santa could not build this in his workshop...........regardless of how many elves he had working for him. At ten years old, I remember asking Santa for a 2-wheel bicycle.........at 10 years old my son wanted a 24 cylinder Lamborghini ....red in color.............and showed signs of disappointment when he open the package and found a remote control model, that only cost $100. Who knew at that age.........he wanted the real thing?
With the grand kids, our son and his wife used the same method. It was a valid point to even a shorter period of time, when CHRISTMAS was real...............Santa was some guy that was a personal friend of the family............until they discovered that their letters to Santa @ the North Pole at 1234 Duckworth Lane, Lake dreamalong, WA was their house address........which they were taught at the age of 3. It was then determined that they should be able to make their own evaluation as to real or not real. CHRISTMAS....IS REAL. Santa is what you believe, since now they discovered Santa was real in one case.............but not in the other case. They were able to realize that there were many Santa's. Grandma and Grandpa's house, mom and dad's house, their friends house all the different countries, the mall, the local bar and even in the men's and ladies room at many restaurants or malls. Santa was all over.............but who was the main Santa?...............still that little point to make him real............and still enough to make him intimidating. ssssooooo you better not cry, you better not pout, you better be good I'm telling you why ............SANTA CLAUSE is coming to town.
CHRISTMAS..........is real...................Santa.............IS whatever you want him to be. MERRY CHRISTMAS , MY FRIENDS AND WISHES FOR A HAPPY, HEALTHY NEW YEAR.